I was at someone’s house a few years ago. We sat on the island stools in her well appointed kitchen looking into her beautiful open floor plan family room in her lovely home.
Her: I really need to redo this kitchen
Me: Why. This is beautiful and in perfect shape
Her: Because all my friends have redone their kitchens and they’re all white and pretty and I want that too
Me: stares blankly into the abyss of suburban home ownership…
What do you think about jumping on the bandwagon to follow a trend?
Now before you answer, I want you to really think about that. Do you own anything that you bought based on other people having it?
Do you own anything that was bought because it would make others envious, or because you thought it would give you status?
Do you have opinions on things strictly because people “in the know” have them? A few weeks ago someone said that they like receiving the voter packets because they want to know what “their side” wants them to do.
See why I’m not so much for following the herd?
Do you ever follow the herd?
Now let’s contrast that: What’s the difference between following the herd and following the rules?
In a world where rules/laws are meant to protect others, what do we say about those who don’t follow them?
I know I get annoyed when people don’t pay for mass transit. My Husband is a jaywalker of the first order and it drives me CRAZY. (Is it a law yet that we can’t say the word “crazy”?)
People who cheat on their taxes.
Illegal drugs, or those who get drugs illegally.
What do we think about those who break rules?
Is it OK because some rules are stupid?
Without law, can there be order?
Are there times when we break the rules because we want to follow the herd?