I decided I needed to work on improving my focus- so I when I saw an article about improving one’s focus, I jumped right into it.
At the same time I was:
- checking my email
- monitoring blog comments
- watching a show on HGTV
- Looking at my TBR to figure out what to read next
- petting one or both of my pets
- figuring out what time I needed to start dinner
- texting my friends and my daughter
- figuring out whether or not I needed a pedicure
- thinking about what sort of tea I should have
- playing a word in Words with Friends
- making a list about all the ways that I can improve my focus
That sounds a lot like how I do things
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Right? I mean reallyโฆI wonder why I donโt have focusโฆ๐
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Lol. Sounds familiar!
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This is so me!! LOL
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Glad to know Iโm not the only one!!๐
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Add to that, a song playing in my head, my subconscious noodling through an issue at work and my wife says “did you hear what I said?”
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Yup!!
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Super post
Thanks
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So relatable!
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So true!
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๐ธSwami Sarvapriyanandaji says that we think we are multitasking but actually human brain does not have the capacity to multitask. As a result, in the name of multitasking we are not doing any work properly. Sending the link to you in case you are interested.
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I think that thought is spot on
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I think this has now been scientifically proven as well. Wish I had a link to that research and result but I don’t.
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You are quite right because Swamiji too makes references to neuro science and positive psychology.
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I think this means you are an awesome multitasker!
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Glass half fullโฆ๐
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Yep, you got the focus down pat.
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Look at all the things you can focus on at once!
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So true! In a world where we are always multi tasking is it any wonder that itโs difficult to focus?
When I read I often have the tv or music on in the background. And even if I donโt, 98% of the time I read on my kindle app on my iPad. So Iโm distracted by constant banners sliding across the screen letting me know who is texting me, emailing me, calling me etc. I even have weather updates. (Itโs hurricane season) and so I get radar alerts for storms, lightning etc.
But Iโm finding lately that as I get older my focusing on one thing is more challenging. As a teacher for over three decades I was a master at multi-tasking. (My students were convinced I had eyes in back of my head). But now, the minute there is a commercial break on tv, I pick up my iPad or phone and look at it as if Iโm missing something, somewhere in the world.. As if I HAVE to be doing something else during that break or I feel guilty.
Is our problem with focusing really a problem or just that we have become used to having access to so much info that we are addicted to always doing something every minute of the day? Itโs as if we NEED to be multitasking. I feel guilty if I sit through an entire movie or spend a day reading an entire book. We have been conditioned to be constantly moving or working on projects so we rarely focus long enough on any one particular thing. Maybe itโs Multi tasking has that has become the real problem. Society seems to have become impatient. We canโt just sit and wait anymore.
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You make a great point. I think have become addicted to the influx of info available. Iโll be reading and it will spark a memory, or make me think of something, and Iโll immediately jump to that, which leads to something else, because itโs all so easy to do
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I know! If Iโm reading and the book mentions a historical figure I stop and research that person. Or if a painting is mentioned In a book or article I have to see it. Since we can investigate in a matter of seconds we jump on ideas that lead us all over the place.
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Yes!! I do the same thing! Itโs like I need to know at that moment because I can!
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EXACTLY!!
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LOL
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It seems as though we are bombarded by so much now that focusing on one thing is more difficult than ever.
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Yes! I find itโs so hard to stay on task
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I feel as though I have ADD and have meditated to helpโฆit seems to help some.
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When I really need to focus I use a timer and stick to a specific task for 15 minutes then take a break. But, I still screw up sometimes
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Might try that too
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This is the story of my life!
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Youโre not alone!
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Same. My brain now feels like something is wrong if I am only doing one thing!
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Yes!!
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When life slows and I am able to focus on just one thing I fall asleep! Here’s to multiple logs, keeps the fires burning (bad metaphor for California)! Hugs, C
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Yeahโฆweโve gotten used to firing on all cylindersโฆ
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๐๐คฃ๐คช–I was glad I had not just taken a sip of water. I would have ruined my laptop before I scrolled through the first ones. Clearly the sign of a brilliant mind!
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Haha! Resonates. ๐
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I find focusing impossible. There’s so much else that calls my attention. You’re definitely not alone in that!
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Itโs crazy how my mind splits in different directions!
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The older I get, the more it seems I’m losing my grip on being able to focus. Ugh. There’s too many distractions. They do have meds for that, though. It’s a conspiracy, I tell ya! ๐ Mona
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There are times when I just canโt focus on something! Crazy!
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Oh yes, sounds normal to me. LOL!
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Looks good from my end! LOL
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Iโm terrible when it comes to focusing on one thing at a time!
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Focus continues to elude me…..
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Me as wellโฆ
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How is that even possible? I recently blogged that I have such a narrow focus, it’s impossible for me to do two tasks at once, let alone your 11…
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Iโm not saying I did a good job at any of them other than knowing for sure that my toes were a mess and a pedi was in short order.
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Ha! Well, good to know you’re human.
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Maybe too human
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Good luck with the new โfocusโ regimen.๐
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Nice
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Your multi-tasking is terrific.
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Sounds like how a day in my life plays out.
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My to-do list is always overloaded, but I do focus on doing one thing at a time. Of course, life & other people make that difficult (sometimes downright impossible) but that’s my preferred method. When I was younger, I used to multi-task with pride, but not now ๐
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Sound like me when trying to focus you become so unfocused
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Can fully relate. My attention span is reducing day by day and it is concerning ๐ญ
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Omg I know!! Iโm presently also writing my blog for thursday
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Yup
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Yup ๐๐๐
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Lol very nice. I suggest starting a focus meditation practice. Start 10min a day and wrote down the things that keep you from focusing. All in good fun ๐
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