I am a goals person.
I have a desire to do X.
After I’ve thought about why I want to do X, and if it seems like something reasonable and I can manage my expectations, I set upon creating a plan.
I can be very detailed in my plans. And I write them in my planner accordingly. Sometimes I do things in steps. And I often give myself two to three weeks to get into the habit of that particular step. Because you need time to develop a pattern so that it becomes second nature. And sometimes I add a step to an already developed habit- ie: when I boil the water for tea in the morning I change the pet bowls and make sure they have fresh water and I feed them. As my tea steeps I empty the dishwasher. I just do these things on autopilot.
So when I set out a goal, and I’ve plotted it out, and then I’ve accomplished it, I feel strong.
I decided to do Bloganuary. Some of the prompts were, how do I say this…ridiculous. But I knew that I wanted to stretch my wings a little, so maybe ridiculous was just what I needed. Maybe just having fun with the writing was all I needed.
Which it’s been so far.
Hopefully I will continue to do these prompts until the 31st, and then I will feel strong. Sometimes you don’t need big wins in life: sometimes little wins feel good too. Sometimes they feel better…
FYI- I did the habit link thing here too. I wrote my regular blog. And then after I wrote my regular blog, I had a glass of water and then I started on the Bloganuary posts…it quickly became a habit…
Completing tasks makes me feel strong.
I’m determined to do all of the prompts even if I hate them. You are right a small win is still a win
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I’ll take a bunch of small wins anytime
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This is very true. Meeting goals =feelings of accomplishment = pride in oneself = feeling empowered and strong. (and thank god this challenge is almost over because yes to ridiculous)
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Oh, and here’s another! I started playing Wordle yesterday while waiting on Alison- big fat nothing on the first one, but this morning it-took all 6 tries but I got it!
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Good for you!! It’s fun and tricky and perfect because it’s one!!
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And of course it’s addictive!
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Completely!!
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I would love to know the genesis of the prompts, because they were all over the place
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Excellent steps to accomplishing things. I will have to remind myself to set a specific period of time to set a habit because of frequently fall off after a couple of weeks. Thanks!
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14-21 days is usually a good barometer for creating a habit!!
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Thanks, I will aim for 21 days – seem to be a slower learner with age. Can’t figure out how 74 happened to me so fast
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Yeah ..I know…😆
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True. I think this particular prompt have made us dig deeper. Love how it shows the inner workings of ourselves. Enjoying reading all the posts for this prompt. Keep them coming.
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Thank you!
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I do love crossing off tasks on my to-do list.
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Favorite thing in the world
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I think being able to lift weights makes me feel strong. 😉
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😉
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Yes, crossing off things on my lists does make me feel in control, which I guess is similar to strong.
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Completely! They all give you a win!
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I love the way you equate accomplishing goals to feeling strong. This is clear and practical. I concur.
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It’s the simple things for me!
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What makes me strong is getting wordle in two guesses..once at least, been kicking my ass lately..but I am addicted to it
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Totally addictive! Yesterday was hard for me
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I’m a chocolate person myself. eating M&Ms makes me strong.
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Works for me!!
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I wish I’d stuck with it. I’ve found the prompts to be pretty interesting for the most part.
Also, I just started following you, and WP has already unsubscribed me once. I’ve encountered this with a few other bloggers. I think their coders need to get their acts together!
Hope you keep up with it until the end. You’re almost there!
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Omg so many people have told me that I get dropped. It’s ridiculous
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I’m the same way: when I check things off my to do list, I feel strong and capable!
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It’s empowering
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I so admire your perseverance!
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