The jackhammering in my building continues in earnest…I went to Target yesterday and forgot to buy the milk that I went there to buy (and I had a list….) Federer lost… I got three calls from, I believe, Azerbaijan in the middle of the night therefore screwing up any chance of a good sleep…
But on the bright side:
Gratitude
I am eternally grateful to my Daughter’s friends and her high school classmates. In NYC there is a tradition called “bedding”. Your friends come over to your house and put snacks the color of your college (my daughters college is blue and grey so she got oreos, graham crackers, pretzel m&m’s, and I don’t remember what other blue wrapping) and they make a cake or cupcakes with the school colors, and put all your merch out, and balloons….it’s really cute. And to see them hiding in her room waiting for her to come home from her babysitting job….yelling surprise….and to hear nine girls laughing and giggling….I will miss these groups of kids hanging out in my house.
She also got her yearbook yesterday and kids started to sign. Last night we read through, and I couldn’t help buy tear up a little reading all the sweet things these kids had to say about her, seeing her through there eyes….grateful that she had a relatively charmed high school experience…
Calm
I had something on my mind for awhile. I wrote it out. I feel better. Sometimes it’s that simple.
Oh Oh..you’d better steel yourself. This is a tough transition. (I’m talking about yours, not your daughters..😉)
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I know!,!
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I agree, that writing our thoughts out can often be very helpful!
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It’s amazing how much better you feel!
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What a fun thing to do! It definitely will be quieter around the house. Nice that she lets you read her yearbook. Writing is so helpful. Even when no one else reads it. Happy Saturday.
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To you too! I know they’re already starting to get weepy! So sweet!
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Isn’t it gratifying to see your child through the eyes of their peers? great post – hope the jack hammers soon stop.
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It was so sweet, all the nice things, the good memories, the positivity. Makes me feel good about humanity
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And you should also give yourself a little pat on the back for raising such a child. Yes, it makes me feel good about humanity just reading about it.
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I’ll take that pat on the back!😀
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Good – you deserve it 🙂
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Wow, that is so cool. Your daughter has a good group of friends.
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They’re just so nice and smart
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That’s an amazing tradition and will be such a sweet memory for her.
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I know! It’s really so sweet!!
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What a wonderful group of friends your daughter has. It always makes me weepy hearing how my kids have touched those in their life.
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She’s very lucky! And me too. They’re great kids
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I love that idea. It sounds like so much fun. Our school doesn’t hand out year books until registration the following year and this is something I really dislike because you never get that opportunity to do the signings (something we ALWAYS did the last day or two of school). I get they want to make sure that all of the end of year activities end up in there, but… there are so many opportunities lost because they don’t get them sooner. Even if they figured out a way to do something that could be put in after they got the actual books would be better than nothing at all.
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It’s nice when the kids get to sign, but i also understand wanting to include everything…maybe the6 can do a supplement
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I wish they would. I know that BG would love it, but MC wouldn’t care.
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Kids….
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Awh! So sweet, what a cool idea! ❤ Hold on Mama! You got this! 🙂
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💗💗thank you!
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Very welcome! 🙂
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Yep, Fed lost, sorry I am a Rafa fan but I do like watching Fed play. Sounds like the girls had a lot of fun…:) Be strong!!! You seriously got this!! 🙂
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I know😀 final should be good tomorrow
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I can identify, my daughter left for college last year. Part of me was like “Joline you can’t leave,” but I knew she *had* to leave because it was the next thing indicated. She loves college so much and has done a lot of worthwhile things.
It sounds like your daughter is a lovely person and you are blessed.
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Thank You! She’s pretty good…💗
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The simple things are the finest things, and these moments with your kid are definitely fine things that I am grateful you are getting to enjoy
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💗💗
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What a sweet tradition!
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It’s so easy to focus on what went wrong and forget about all the good things in our lives. Even simple moments we take for granted. Thanks for the reminder!!
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Thank you! That’s my intention !
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How wonderful to read about your daughter’s friends and their traditions.
Blue and gray, did you share where she is heading?
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You’ll be shocked to find that the girl who wants to be a lawyer is going to Georgetown….
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I thought it might be Georgetown! Great school and based on what you’ve said about her college search, more importantly it sounds like a great fit! That’s wonderful.
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Honestly, even though she really wanted Harvard, this is actually a better fit for what she’s studying, American studies and history. And she loves dc, and really wants to intern there (she applied to 3 schools in dc, so really, she just loves the energy there!) I’m thrilled because she’s thrilled!
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Obviously Harvard has a lot to offer and Cambridge/Boston is a fantastic place to live too, but the draw of DC is strong. Especially for anyone interested in an up close view of government, and I’m sure the internship opportunities are plentiful.
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They said anyone who wants to intern on the Hill gets an internship. That’s what she loved…the amount of opportunities. Plus, so many top tier law firms have offices in DC. She loves the law, so really, can it be better? I’m guessing she’s going to sneak over to the Supreme Court when she can….
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I have nominated you for the Blogger Recognition Award. Here is a link if you care to accept it:
https://chopkins2x3.wordpress.com/2019/06/11/blogger-recognition-award/
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Thanks!
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You’re most welcome
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Bedding sounds like a very cool tradition.
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It was so cute!
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